Lama dah saya tak cerita bab the challenges of having special child. Just returned from 3 days external training. Letih hari2 drive pegi balik Penang Island from the mainland.
OK. Here you go...kat atas ni photo of Irfan with his laptop. We decided to gave laptop as his birthday present when he was in Standard One. So the laptop has been with him almost 3 years. Tak sangka kan. Irfan lagi terer handling the laptop with his right hand and left foot compare to us yang normal ni. Cakap bab computer game..hmmm..memang sah kita kalah. Hehehe...
So as said in my previous posting, do not under estimate Allah's creation. You just have to believe in it. Trust the ability of your child. I learnt a lot from this. I am totally out from my total panicking moment now. Irfan can do anything he wanted to that we normal person thought he cannot do. When he was around 4 years old...i bought a set of badminton racket for him. My mom was in tears when he saw Irfan had difficulties to throw the shuttlecock & hit it using racket with only one hand. Masa tu terus mak marah.." akak, awat la pi beli badminton, kesian kat irfan...beli la benda lain"....actually i never had in mind that Irfan is different from others. So...i just smile to myself when i flash back all those moment. We do play badminton now once a while. There's no boundaries for Irfan. He is a normal child to us!
I will write more on this in near future. Sorry lah. I am quite tight at the moment. Just 1 month transfer to a new department. A lot of things to catch-up, to clean up and to learn definitely.
Till then.
Remember - Life is Beautiful!
10 comments:
Bagusnya!! Pasni bolehlah Irfan menjadi seorang blogger seperti mummy nya juga;)
irfan mmg hebat kan. saya bangga tengok kebolehan die, memang tade beza ngan normal kid. Alhamdulillah.
zaila...hehehe...tu la...ingat nak ajar jugak irfan buat blog. but tak sempat lagi. irfan kalu masuk tenet, dia tau main Ben10 online games tu ja. btw, Irfan memang suka menulis...i gave him personal diary since dia darjah satu. lepas tu dia pun suka tulis surat to me. if i feel sad with his bahaviour i will rite a letter and put on his pillow. he will do the same to me...ebelum dia pi sekolah kalau dia ada apa2 eg: nak mintak maaf ka or to express his feelings he will rite letter to me too. nanti lah ada masa i will share about this too.
nana..hopefully irfan boleh jadi anak yang independent. kita parents bukannya dapat menongkat langit. one day kita akan pergi. survival skills lah yang paling important utk anak. please pray for Irfan.
Well said Zura! Irfan should be proud for having a mother like you, and you too, should be proud of Irfan.
macih nana huslina (ramai blogger nama nana :)). sedih plak bila baca komen nana. monday ni irfan + adik dia akan attend kem anak soleh. hopefully memang akan jadi anak yang soleh. pray for irfan.
satu lagi nana huslina...i penah sembang dengan iffil at our early stage. are we going to dismiss the pregnancy if we know at the early stage of pregnancy...u know why we came to this conversation? u know lah orang kita tak open to this...soalan2 yang i selalu dapat.."tak nampak ka waktu pegnen?". so what if i nampak?. memang berat mata memandang berat lagi bahu memikul. thanks to you all for the support! really appreciate it!
Ye ke Zura? whatever it is, you know you have made the right decision, kan?... alhamdulilah.
Irfan budak hebat! Sama gak ngan Angah. Kami sume treat dia sama je ngan budak biasa. Kadang tu lupa yg dia tu special. penah 2 kali aku terbelikan dia spek itam. payah dia nk sangkut kt telinga...huhuhu..
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